Susan Love

As an Empowered Decisions coach, I offer coaching to women who feel stuck in unhappy marriages. Many of these women remain in limbo for months, if not years. Why? Fear. Judgment. Guilt. Doubt. So many reasons! But being stuck can suck the life out of your life!

When clients come to me they’re usually feeling

*Afraid of not being able to make it on their own, or of making the wrong choice

*Exhausted and overwhelmed by this major life crisis, with its fear and indecision

*Lost. Unsure who they would be if they left, or if they can feel like themselves if they stay

That’s where I come in. You need to DECIDE. You want to take action. You want to be free of the trap and believe that you can get through it. You want to feel like yourself again. Depending on your situation, these things could be possible whether you decide to stay or go.

I’m Susan Love, your Empowered Decisions Clini-Coach. Throughout my 30 year career as a psychotherapist, I've encountered numerous women who felt trapped in their marriages, experiencing feelings of hopelessness, anger, resentment, exhaustion, and a profound sense of being lost.

Then I found myself in the exact same place as those clients.

I was miserable in my 30 year marriage, but there was no obvious sign that I would be happier ending it. I was a hopeless overfunctioner, with all the exhaustion, resentment, and codependency that comes with it. I felt guilty. I felt responsible for my husband’s happiness and doubted his ability to survive without me. I felt resigned and trapped.

This went on WAY too long. It’s one of the main reasons I decided to expand into coaching: to help women like my clients–and myself– get to decision and action faster than I could as a therapist.

I love doing therapy, but sometimes it’s a long and winding road. Coaching is more focused on solving a specific problem–in this case, making the right decision– in a shorter, defined time-frame.

If any of this sounds like you, don’t stay trapped in limbo. I can help you find clarity, peace, and even joy by making the right decision. Start reconnecting with and loving yourself again.